but wait! there's more!

Just as I blogged earlier today...

The parent's air conditioner stopped working. Repair can't get there until morning.

I offered to come get them and bring them to our house. She balked. Of course.

I don't even want to think about what dad may do with a strange repair person in the house.

xora

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